Communication Handles All Problems                             1/25/2010


Jane versus Sam:

A very close friend of mine, call her Jane, was being very worried about the fact she had a new boss, Sam. Her job certainty
was out the bottom. You know how people get when they “think” they could lose their job and that job is important to them?

She was fluctuating between grief and fear or worry.

First I pointed out that her description of her boss sounded a lot like her former boss, Peg, who was unpredictable and
sometimes very unkind. Peg was a “good friend” who used this friendship to control Jane. Peg eventually turned on Jane and
Jane correctly resigned. Peg could not be trusted.

Once she realized Sam was not Peg this helped a lot with the situation.

The next thing I pointed out was she didn’t know Sam at all. She needed to get into communication with him. She needed to
find out what he needed and wanted from her.

Well, after a bit of coaching and urging, this happened.

Sam is not like Peg at all. Jane is getting along excellent with Sam and is no longer worried about her job.

If you have situations you’re worried about, there is a very good chance I can coach you through handling it.

I don’t charge for helping.

You can feel free to donate to my site as it does cost money to keep it up and to keep my communication line
open to assist others.

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