Homo Sapiens Under Attack
“Being Single and Loving It”
I read that on a Twitter Profile and felt immediate empathy with the lady. Not sympathy, but empathy.
Empathy is when you understand the feelings of another. Sympathy is to experience the feelings of someone else which means they pull you
down to their low emotional tone. People in grief often get sympathy and leave you feeling bad.
From my perspective, I can stay high toned, enthusiastic and still understand the feelings of another.
Having clarified that, I will proceed with the idea her bio inspired.
Personal Experience
When I lost my wife in 2007, for a short while, I was not looking at the future.
This didn't last very long at all.
We always talked over the ups and downs of our life. Her problems, here and there, were brought up. I usually had solutions which she rarely paid
attention to, but I did listen.
When I had difficulties, she would listen (usually).
Life was not perfect but it was very survival compared to not having her at my side helping me confront life.
I missed having someone to talk to.
There was a point where I had some news. Suddenly I realized I didn't have anyone to tell the news to. That was a bit of a griefy moment. My wife
wasn't there to listen to my exciting news or not so exciting. But she had always been there to listen to me for 33 years.
She was my anchor in the storms of life and I was hers.
I was not loving being single.
Helping Each Other
I missed serving her coffee in bed every morning and cooking her breakfast most of the time.
Oh there were many times, she did these things for me.
She did my laundry. Of course I am perfectly capable but for years, when the children were home, she did all the laundry. When the children left,
she continued.
She was always going out and buying plants. Many didn't live unless I planted them. Though after the kids moved out, she was more active,
meaning successful at getting me to plant the plants.
She worked in a school. Her purpose in life was to care for and help children. She spent 23 years working for a private school. When the kids
moved out, getting more into plants at home was sort of an extension to creating a future through plants.
She Created Future for us.
It is totally awesome to have your spouse helping to create a future with children, grandchildren, at school and with plants.
I did enjoy her creation of our future.
I enjoyed her covering the walls with pictures of our family. Of course I had to hang the pictures but it made her happy and that made me happy.
I missed her creating things when I was widowed, single.
Doing Things Together
As a husband and wife, we very much enjoyed doing things together. I really didn't like going out and doing too many things without her. I almost
never when out with the boys.
Though there were times my son and I would stop and have a couple beers and admire the ladies in the bar. We knew them by name. We shot
pool there often with his wife and children there. Very often my wife was there with me.
I missed her being next to me at night. I missed taking her coffee in the morning.
With my wife, we had for 33 years created a fantastic life together.
When she passed away, I was not loving being single!
New Wife
I've written about this in several articles so wont go into it a lot. (How to Successfully find a Spouse)
Just one point, we were going to visit her family and mine immediately after we go married. Mary wanted to fly from Los Angeles to Kentucky and
North Carolina.
I said no!
While I wanted to meet and visit our families, driving across the country gave me a lot of time alone with my wife! That was important. Visiting my
extended family was very secondary in my universe.
I had a new wife and I wanted time with her. So we drove and when we got tired, we found a motel and slept until we got up.
It was an awesome trip.
I could have done it alone but that would not have been fun.
When my wife works late, I miss her. I don't like being single even for an evening!
At home, we may not speak as we both get busy on the computers but we can speak. Often I'll come up behind her very quiet and snuggle with
her. She usually winds up giggling!
I love my cat, Jack but he is not a substitute for my wife!
Being alone as some benefits: You don't have to get your spouse's agreement, only half the food to cook, you can go out with anyone you want
(assuming anyone will go out with you).
I guess the only real benefit of being single is having free time to look for someone to marry! Yes that is it. Once you're married you will not have
the time nor need for that activity.
So that my opinion for “Being Single and Loving It” :-)
Now the title:
Homo Sapiens Under Attack
Why did I use this title?
First the family is extremely valuable in keeping mankind alive. From the above I hope I've demonstrated how valuable my wife was and my new
wife is to me and my survival. This spreads to my grandchildren and out into mankind!
Part of the overall plan of weakening values is the destruction of the family unit. The administration is pushing homosexuality into laws and
education.
They are working to crush religions which have been another defense of humanity.
Knock out the family and religion and the enslavement of man will be easier.
The schools have become an indoctrination for prison.
TSA is intimating the public broadly.
Chemtrails? Vaccines? Genetic Modification of our food? Fluoride in the water? Banksters and their population reduction. Nuclear disasters?
See Related article: Conflicts on Earth!
Yes, all those points are attacking humanity's survival.
The title was meant to get your attention, not to cave the world in on you.
The solution is not to hate or worry but to take positive actions! You will get result where you put your energy. Focus on hate or worry...
that's what you get. Focus on doing something good...that is what you get!
Solution
In today's world, there are many situations that are less than ideal. We have a few insane people making it that way. See related article: Conflicts
on Earth.
Each of us can do something to improve life on this planet. The very least is to know your right! Visit my page on the Universal Declaration of
Human Right passed by the UN in 1948...click here.
Instead of growling at that other motorist, let it go. Smile at them!
Doing nothing positive is contributing to the massive agreement “nothing can be done about it.”
THAT IS NOT TRUE. I believe something can always be done about it!
My plan, which is doable, follows and is outlined in New Civilization.
My Plan: New Civilization
I intend for earth and life on it get much better! You may think I'm crazy which says you disagree with me or are willing for the death of mankind or
at least slavery of 99% of us.
You can do something creative, positive or you can moan and be part of the problem.
Your exchange with yourself, your family, mankind and beyond depends on your actions or in actions.
Silent people are part of the problem.
Low toned whining people, shaking in fear, supporting suppressive governments, with their give away programs, are part of the problem.
See my plan: New Civilization!
So join me and the thousands more that are working to reverse the decline of civilization at the hands of the banksters.
#AwesomeTeam And Positive Attitude
My creation of #AwesomeTeam is a tool to spread information, truth, to give hope, cheer and good will and to protect freedom and to save lives.
To be effective, I need more followers and many more people willing to Retweet my contents.
I speak about our group here: Twitter People Are Far Above Average and Why?
But my intentions are true and are explained in my article New Civilization.
Join me.
My family, your family, our groups and mankind ARE worth saving.
In the future when all is said and done, will you have stood by watching life perish or will you have given it a shot to do something about it?
See #AwesomeTeam Hope and Expansion.
Together we are stronger than we are individually!
As part of #AwesomeTeam you can help! RT this data and my other content to help wake up the world before its too late!
Volunteer to do more. Then you can say you gave it an honest effort. YOU HELPED!
If we can impact enough people, perhaps we can turn the tide of darkness into a flood of light.
Keep up the positive out flow of smiles and information to your fellow man. Communicate! That's what this whole article is
about!
Please follow @MaryHWatts as a back up to my account!
See my page “#FollowFriday, How To Play”
See my page “#FollowFriday, How to Get Traffic”
See my page “How I promo a Page”
If you help or if can't devote the time, either way, let me know if you need assistance.
I have a page “Problem Solving” Check out some of my successes.
I am a Health Coach and can assist those that want to change their health. Contact me.
#AwesomeTeam Day2U! :-) #PEACE
Carl Watts
On Twitter as: http://twitter.com/Poet_Carl_Watts
On Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/carlwatts
My Facebook Fan page http://www.facebook.com/pages/Carl-Watts/30825534785
Contact on Website
Updates
*TweetAdder: these links to take you to my affiliate pages! If you do purchase either of these, I recommend you sign up as an affiliate. That way, you can
make commission to if you promote and someone signs up. I can tell you, I purchased form someone's promotion and they made money! So should you!
©2011 by Carl Watts/CarlWattsArtist.com edited 01/08/12
“Being Single and Loving It”
I read that on a Twitter Profile and felt immediate empathy with the lady. Not sympathy, but empathy.
Empathy is when you understand the feelings of another. Sympathy is to experience the feelings of someone else which means they pull you
down to their low emotional tone. People in grief often get sympathy and leave you feeling bad.
From my perspective, I can stay high toned, enthusiastic and still understand the feelings of another.
Having clarified that, I will proceed with the idea her bio inspired.
Personal Experience
When I lost my wife in 2007, for a short while, I was not looking at the future.
This didn't last very long at all.
We always talked over the ups and downs of our life. Her problems, here and there, were brought up. I usually had solutions which she rarely paid
attention to, but I did listen.
When I had difficulties, she would listen (usually).
Life was not perfect but it was very survival compared to not having her at my side helping me confront life.
I missed having someone to talk to.
There was a point where I had some news. Suddenly I realized I didn't have anyone to tell the news to. That was a bit of a griefy moment. My wife
wasn't there to listen to my exciting news or not so exciting. But she had always been there to listen to me for 33 years.
She was my anchor in the storms of life and I was hers.
I was not loving being single.
Helping Each Other
I missed serving her coffee in bed every morning and cooking her breakfast most of the time.
Oh there were many times, she did these things for me.
She did my laundry. Of course I am perfectly capable but for years, when the children were home, she did all the laundry. When the children left,
she continued.
She was always going out and buying plants. Many didn't live unless I planted them. Though after the kids moved out, she was more active,
meaning successful at getting me to plant the plants.
She worked in a school. Her purpose in life was to care for and help children. She spent 23 years working for a private school. When the kids
moved out, getting more into plants at home was sort of an extension to creating a future through plants.
She Created Future for us.
It is totally awesome to have your spouse helping to create a future with children, grandchildren, at school and with plants.
I did enjoy her creation of our future.
I enjoyed her covering the walls with pictures of our family. Of course I had to hang the pictures but it made her happy and that made me happy.
I missed her creating things when I was widowed, single.
Doing Things Together
As a husband and wife, we very much enjoyed doing things together. I really didn't like going out and doing too many things without her. I almost
never when out with the boys.
Though there were times my son and I would stop and have a couple beers and admire the ladies in the bar. We knew them by name. We shot
pool there often with his wife and children there. Very often my wife was there with me.
I missed her being next to me at night. I missed taking her coffee in the morning.
With my wife, we had for 33 years created a fantastic life together.
When she passed away, I was not loving being single!
New Wife
I've written about this in several articles so wont go into it a lot. (How to Successfully find a Spouse)
Just one point, we were going to visit her family and mine immediately after we go married. Mary wanted to fly from Los Angeles to Kentucky and
North Carolina.
I said no!
While I wanted to meet and visit our families, driving across the country gave me a lot of time alone with my wife! That was important. Visiting my
extended family was very secondary in my universe.
I had a new wife and I wanted time with her. So we drove and when we got tired, we found a motel and slept until we got up.
It was an awesome trip.
I could have done it alone but that would not have been fun.
When my wife works late, I miss her. I don't like being single even for an evening!
At home, we may not speak as we both get busy on the computers but we can speak. Often I'll come up behind her very quiet and snuggle with
her. She usually winds up giggling!
I love my cat, Jack but he is not a substitute for my wife!
Being alone as some benefits: You don't have to get your spouse's agreement, only half the food to cook, you can go out with anyone you want
(assuming anyone will go out with you).
I guess the only real benefit of being single is having free time to look for someone to marry! Yes that is it. Once you're married you will not have
the time nor need for that activity.
So that my opinion for “Being Single and Loving It” :-)
Now the title:
Homo Sapiens Under Attack
Why did I use this title?
First the family is extremely valuable in keeping mankind alive. From the above I hope I've demonstrated how valuable my wife was and my new
wife is to me and my survival. This spreads to my grandchildren and out into mankind!
Part of the overall plan of weakening values is the destruction of the family unit. The administration is pushing homosexuality into laws and
education.
They are working to crush religions which have been another defense of humanity.
Knock out the family and religion and the enslavement of man will be easier.
The schools have become an indoctrination for prison.
TSA is intimating the public broadly.
- Yes, I know I didn't give supporting links for every point. If you doubt any of my points, do some research. If you can't easily find supporting data, let me
know. Because I can support my statements.
Chemtrails? Vaccines? Genetic Modification of our food? Fluoride in the water? Banksters and their population reduction. Nuclear disasters?
See Related article: Conflicts on Earth!
Yes, all those points are attacking humanity's survival.
The title was meant to get your attention, not to cave the world in on you.
The solution is not to hate or worry but to take positive actions! You will get result where you put your energy. Focus on hate or worry...
that's what you get. Focus on doing something good...that is what you get!
Solution
In today's world, there are many situations that are less than ideal. We have a few insane people making it that way. See related article: Conflicts
on Earth.
Each of us can do something to improve life on this planet. The very least is to know your right! Visit my page on the Universal Declaration of
Human Right passed by the UN in 1948...click here.
Instead of growling at that other motorist, let it go. Smile at them!
Doing nothing positive is contributing to the massive agreement “nothing can be done about it.”
THAT IS NOT TRUE. I believe something can always be done about it!
My plan, which is doable, follows and is outlined in New Civilization.
My Plan: New Civilization
I intend for earth and life on it get much better! You may think I'm crazy which says you disagree with me or are willing for the death of mankind or
at least slavery of 99% of us.
You can do something creative, positive or you can moan and be part of the problem.
Your exchange with yourself, your family, mankind and beyond depends on your actions or in actions.
Silent people are part of the problem.
Low toned whining people, shaking in fear, supporting suppressive governments, with their give away programs, are part of the problem.
See my plan: New Civilization!
So join me and the thousands more that are working to reverse the decline of civilization at the hands of the banksters.
#AwesomeTeam And Positive Attitude
My creation of #AwesomeTeam is a tool to spread information, truth, to give hope, cheer and good will and to protect freedom and to save lives.
To be effective, I need more followers and many more people willing to Retweet my contents.
I speak about our group here: Twitter People Are Far Above Average and Why?
But my intentions are true and are explained in my article New Civilization.
Join me.
My family, your family, our groups and mankind ARE worth saving.
In the future when all is said and done, will you have stood by watching life perish or will you have given it a shot to do something about it?
See #AwesomeTeam Hope and Expansion.
Together we are stronger than we are individually!
As part of #AwesomeTeam you can help! RT this data and my other content to help wake up the world before its too late!
Volunteer to do more. Then you can say you gave it an honest effort. YOU HELPED!
If we can impact enough people, perhaps we can turn the tide of darkness into a flood of light.
Keep up the positive out flow of smiles and information to your fellow man. Communicate! That's what this whole article is
about!
Please follow @MaryHWatts as a back up to my account!
See my page “#FollowFriday, How To Play”
See my page “#FollowFriday, How to Get Traffic”
See my page “How I promo a Page”
If you help or if can't devote the time, either way, let me know if you need assistance.
I have a page “Problem Solving” Check out some of my successes.
I am a Health Coach and can assist those that want to change their health. Contact me.
#AwesomeTeam Day2U! :-) #PEACE
Carl Watts
On Twitter as: http://twitter.com/Poet_Carl_Watts
On Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/carlwatts
My Facebook Fan page http://www.facebook.com/pages/Carl-Watts/30825534785
Contact on Website
Updates
*TweetAdder: these links to take you to my affiliate pages! If you do purchase either of these, I recommend you sign up as an affiliate. That way, you can
make commission to if you promote and someone signs up. I can tell you, I purchased form someone's promotion and they made money! So should you!
©2011 by Carl Watts/CarlWattsArtist.com edited 01/08/12
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