The Importance of YOU!
I have encountered far too many people with a low opinion of themselves. (It's
also true I've encountered a few with too high of an opinion but that's a
I'm not sure where this, the low opinion, comes from exactly but I'll put forth my
educated guess, my opinion.
Do you have a low opinion of yourself?
Or perhaps, it's not low but just not as high as it should be!
I'm betting that others have convinced you that you are less than you are or
could be. They have criticized you, made you wrong, told you are stupid, ugly,
never going to amount to anything, lazy, ignorant, and on and on. Related
article: Who Has the RIGHT to Insult You?
Probably you can think of a few things your family have said to you that made
you feel bad! And no doubt, your employer(s) past and present. How about
your spouse? Does he/she often sound like his/her parents when they are
Once I told my wife (before we were married) I was going to build a dog house
for my German Shepard dog. Her response was "What will it look like, shit?"
Over the years, we joked about that. (By the way, she and I both grew up and
the critical/insulting comments stopped :-)
And there's always the “friend” that is telling you “for your own good” what is
wrong with you. That's a good line “What's wrong with you is...” or “The thing
wrong with you is... Specifically related article Who Has the RIGHT to Insult
Most people treat you like they were treated. So they aren't all bad but often
have been trained by pain to react the way they do. There is little, if any,
thinking behind their venom. You just happen to be a “friend” they can whittle
down with some safely.
See if you can recall someone speaking to you this way? Or someone
speaking to others this way? Perhaps you've done this too?
If you found yourself guilty of doing this, now that you've spotted it, you can
simply decide if you wish to continue help kill off your friends and family or to
change and be a true friend. It's your choice.
This is called invalidation, making wrong or less of
The government does this every time we let them take over an industry or
problem area. By doing this, they are telling us we can't handle the problem,
we are weak and stupid. Unfortunately we usually have failed to take
responsibility and thus let the government cease power!
Healthcare is an example of that. Many people in America complained and
failed to be effective. So the federal government has illegally took over and will
be dictating your care. And who's going to pay for it? It is totally corrupt but
that's not the point of this article either.
Related article Governments, Solution For!
You are successful!
You are far more successful than you are a failure. Were this not true, you
would not be able to read this. See Related Article: Twitter People Are FAR
Additionally, if you are not more correct in your actions, more successful, than
you are a failure, you die. You are reading this so you haven't made a fatal
mistake nor made enough little mistakes to die.
Many people have good opinions of you. I do! You're taking the time to read
this and perhaps improve yourself. That will help you and mankind. Thus I
Look around. Do you have friends any where? Do you have any family that
cares about you? If you don't email me and we can set up a regular
communication. I'll help you. No cost!
The media is constantly feeding you bad news. Radio, TV, newspapers, the
Internet, even your “friends” and family feed you bad news. “Look how bad it
all is!” Related article How The News Media is Used to Control Us.
Well, it is not all bad! Did you eat today? Good! It could be worse.
Now what can you do to improve things? What can you do to improve your
opinion of yourself?
Try smiling :-)
Tips on Survival:
1. Change your viewpoint!
- Look around and see the beauty around you. It is not all ugly. Have you
seen a toddler lately? That's beauty and they are so alive!
- Recall the times you have helped someone, even a little!
- Recall some of the times you've been successful, that you've been right!
- Right now, just change your mind and decide you're great!
2. Improve your diet and rest habits.
Tired or ill fed people think all is lost. Recall the last bad hangover you
had! So just start getting a little sleep and eating regular meals. If you
need data on nutrition, contact me, I'm trained in health! Also, vitamin B1
can help a lot of things, you might try it.
3. Stop watching, reading, or listening to the news! Just try it! Go see a good
movie. Listen to some good music or read a book. Read the article listed
below! Contact me!
4. Put some time into learning! Learning is an expansion of you, your
beingness. If you ever totally stop learning, you will be dying or dead. If you
need something to study, there's a list of article that I recommend below or
5. Change friends! Lose the negative people. Once, my wife and I cut all
communication with her aunt for four years. Our life got simpler and better! If
you absolutely can't cut communications with negative people, contact me. I'll
coach you on how to handle them. No cost. Don't let others pull you down to
their level of misery! Related article: Who Has the RIGHT to Insult You?
Recommended articles so you can start working on numbers 1 and 4
- New Civilization
- How to Be a Great Person
- People Who Want You to Fail (Part One) Who is Stopping You?
- Feel Happier Right Now
- Excuses Vs. The Supreme Test
- Take Control, Part On
- Three Ways to Handle People
- Where to Find Great Advice
- Have Some Fun!
- A Powerful Success Habit
- Imagine Your Success
- How to Be Happy
- How to Be a True Friend to the World
- You Tried to Reach a Goal and Failed...Now What?
- Rule Your World
- Need Security?
I hope you enjoy the articles and find them useful in your life. If you run into
any problems feel free to contact me.
You are important!
"A person is only as valuable as he assist others in their games of survival!"
Have a great day!
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