Who Has the RIGHT to INSULT You?
I have observed several things lately and wanted to answer that question and give my logic behind it. Insults are much more serious than
most people think. Insults tend to add up and eventually result in you having a lowered opinion of yourself and others. After receiving enough
insults, you start using insults on others!
Even though you already know the answer:
“NO ONE HAS THE RIGHT TO INSULT YOU!”
Insults are a method of domination by the lessening of you or who ever it is aimed at. If someone insults your friend, it is aimed at you
and your friend.
Insults are a covert method of harming you and others. Insults are a coward's method of control by covert domination.
Insults hurt the person insulted. Insults also hurt the person giving them out as they know it is not right.
If a person hits you in the face, you've been insulted. If you're shot and killed with a gun, you've been insulted. Dropping bombs on cities
insults all of mankind as the action is criminal and unnecessary.
Insults are just like being hit physically without the physical force behind them.
Does your employer have a right to insult you?
No! Never.
If you made a mistake, you are not stupid. Telling you it was a “stupid mistake” is an insult!
People can be corrected without insulting them, their actions, their knowledge or intelligence! See my article “How to Correct”.
Do your parents have a right to insult you?
No! Never.
But you say sometimes the child will not cooperate! Does that give the parent a right to crush the child, to insult them, beat them, all the
same thing? No! You can obtain the cooperation of others without insults ever being used. See my article "How to Get Cooperation".
Further, the only reasons a child, who loves you dearly, will not cooperate are: They don't understand. Or they are tired, hungry, ill or
otherwise upset. In that condition, they are incapable of controlling their bodies or environment. If they are in that condition, YOU, the parent,
is responsible.
And to emphasis, children will cooperate if they understand!
You have no right to get upset with them. You are required to be saintly in you love and patience with them.
Do not be your parents or handle them as your parents did unless it is love and tolerance!
Let me give a few examples:
“Don't take this personally but...” But what? They are going to be critical and/or insulting! It is an attempt to control you.
“Now, traditionally it's...” If traditional is different than what you proposed or want, it is a way to make you wrong and is an insult.
“Hope you start believing...” That insults your present viewpoint regardless if they are talking about politics, religion, vaccinations, health
care etc.
“You call yourself an artist?” That one is easy to see.
“Band x stinks.” It's your favorite band, they just insulted YOU!
"You have a short attention span"
The #psych says "You are bipolar" or "ADHD" or any other made up term!
Here's a good one "You're suffering from depression".
Bull! Everyone has a bad day or is moody. Look around and see who is insulting you! That may well be why your in a bad mood!
“That shirt makes you look...” Unless it is great/good, I don't care what they say next, it is an insult to your choice. If you ask someone, do
you like this or that or how does this look, just be prepared for the answer. There is a very good chance it will be an insult.
And really, why do you need the approval of others to survive, look nice or act? You know you are correct based on all the data you have. If
you turn out to not be correct, you'll figure it out and learn! But it's your life, keep your own council!
"Covert Hostility, An Example of" was written as a supplement of this article.
Also see related poem "Serpent".
War, Fights, Murder, Chemtrail Spraying, Fluoride, Vaccines!
If you slap someone, you have insulted. If you murder with a knive or drop bombs on their home, you've insulted them.
Sparying populations with chemicals, putting posion in the waters, injecting toxins into babies, ALL SAY THE PEOPLE ARE NOT
IMPORTANT. All those actions are INSULTS!
Suppose they ask your opinion?
If someone asked what do I think of their music, their art, their choice of clothes, my answer is “what do you think?” Then I simply agree with
them. Super easy.
If they press, be gentle or ask them which they think is right or some variation.
How to Handle Insults!
If you're talking/texting with someone and you start to feel less cheerful, less happy, more upset, you've been insulted and you missed that
fact.
If you're not sure, review your conversation. Just scan through it a few times. You'll spot the insult and feel better.
When you spot the insult, it will have MUCH less impact on you because you now understand.
On Twitter, when someone seeks to insult me, I block without further communication.
Outside of the Twitter Universe, you have to evaluate your "friend" that insulted you.
Do you want to continue experience their insults or just cut them off gently?
If it happens to be your spouse, boss, parent, you may not want to do that and you may wish to handle them. That's always good if they are
important in your life.
Perhaps use the data in "How to Correct" to get them to see what they did.
If they routinely insult, you can bet they have been insulted routinely and may no longer even be aware of the method they are using. Usually
they are aware they are insulting and will claim it was unintentional or for "your own good" (always a covert insult)!
Friends on Twitter!
I have so many completely awesome friends, I simply don't need to tolerate people trying to pull me down with covert domination.
Let me know if you need help or have questions. Something can always be done about the situation.
If you have found this helpful, don't be shy, hit the donate button.
#AwesomeTeam Day2U!:-) #PEACE
See Articles: New Civilization and #AwesomeTeam Hope and Expansion.
Carl Watts on Twitter as: http://twitter.com/Poet_Carl_Watts On Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/carlwatts
Contact on Website
Comment On the Times
Updates
©2011-2012 by Carl Watts/CarlWattsArtist.com edited 8/7/11, 8/17/11, 1/31/12, 4/11/12
I have observed several things lately and wanted to answer that question and give my logic behind it. Insults are much more serious than
most people think. Insults tend to add up and eventually result in you having a lowered opinion of yourself and others. After receiving enough
insults, you start using insults on others!
Even though you already know the answer:
“NO ONE HAS THE RIGHT TO INSULT YOU!”
Insults are a method of domination by the lessening of you or who ever it is aimed at. If someone insults your friend, it is aimed at you
and your friend.
Insults are a covert method of harming you and others. Insults are a coward's method of control by covert domination.
Insults hurt the person insulted. Insults also hurt the person giving them out as they know it is not right.
If a person hits you in the face, you've been insulted. If you're shot and killed with a gun, you've been insulted. Dropping bombs on cities
insults all of mankind as the action is criminal and unnecessary.
Insults are just like being hit physically without the physical force behind them.
Does your employer have a right to insult you?
No! Never.
If you made a mistake, you are not stupid. Telling you it was a “stupid mistake” is an insult!
People can be corrected without insulting them, their actions, their knowledge or intelligence! See my article “How to Correct”.
Do your parents have a right to insult you?
No! Never.
But you say sometimes the child will not cooperate! Does that give the parent a right to crush the child, to insult them, beat them, all the
same thing? No! You can obtain the cooperation of others without insults ever being used. See my article "How to Get Cooperation".
Further, the only reasons a child, who loves you dearly, will not cooperate are: They don't understand. Or they are tired, hungry, ill or
otherwise upset. In that condition, they are incapable of controlling their bodies or environment. If they are in that condition, YOU, the parent,
is responsible.
And to emphasis, children will cooperate if they understand!
You have no right to get upset with them. You are required to be saintly in you love and patience with them.
Do not be your parents or handle them as your parents did unless it is love and tolerance!
Let me give a few examples:
“Don't take this personally but...” But what? They are going to be critical and/or insulting! It is an attempt to control you.
“Now, traditionally it's...” If traditional is different than what you proposed or want, it is a way to make you wrong and is an insult.
“Hope you start believing...” That insults your present viewpoint regardless if they are talking about politics, religion, vaccinations, health
care etc.
“You call yourself an artist?” That one is easy to see.
“Band x stinks.” It's your favorite band, they just insulted YOU!
"You have a short attention span"
The #psych says "You are bipolar" or "ADHD" or any other made up term!
Here's a good one "You're suffering from depression".
Bull! Everyone has a bad day or is moody. Look around and see who is insulting you! That may well be why your in a bad mood!
“That shirt makes you look...” Unless it is great/good, I don't care what they say next, it is an insult to your choice. If you ask someone, do
you like this or that or how does this look, just be prepared for the answer. There is a very good chance it will be an insult.
And really, why do you need the approval of others to survive, look nice or act? You know you are correct based on all the data you have. If
you turn out to not be correct, you'll figure it out and learn! But it's your life, keep your own council!
"Covert Hostility, An Example of" was written as a supplement of this article.
Also see related poem "Serpent".
War, Fights, Murder, Chemtrail Spraying, Fluoride, Vaccines!
If you slap someone, you have insulted. If you murder with a knive or drop bombs on their home, you've insulted them.
Sparying populations with chemicals, putting posion in the waters, injecting toxins into babies, ALL SAY THE PEOPLE ARE NOT
IMPORTANT. All those actions are INSULTS!
Suppose they ask your opinion?
If someone asked what do I think of their music, their art, their choice of clothes, my answer is “what do you think?” Then I simply agree with
them. Super easy.
If they press, be gentle or ask them which they think is right or some variation.
How to Handle Insults!
If you're talking/texting with someone and you start to feel less cheerful, less happy, more upset, you've been insulted and you missed that
fact.
If you're not sure, review your conversation. Just scan through it a few times. You'll spot the insult and feel better.
When you spot the insult, it will have MUCH less impact on you because you now understand.
On Twitter, when someone seeks to insult me, I block without further communication.
Outside of the Twitter Universe, you have to evaluate your "friend" that insulted you.
Do you want to continue experience their insults or just cut them off gently?
If it happens to be your spouse, boss, parent, you may not want to do that and you may wish to handle them. That's always good if they are
important in your life.
Perhaps use the data in "How to Correct" to get them to see what they did.
If they routinely insult, you can bet they have been insulted routinely and may no longer even be aware of the method they are using. Usually
they are aware they are insulting and will claim it was unintentional or for "your own good" (always a covert insult)!
Friends on Twitter!
I have so many completely awesome friends, I simply don't need to tolerate people trying to pull me down with covert domination.
Let me know if you need help or have questions. Something can always be done about the situation.
If you have found this helpful, don't be shy, hit the donate button.
#AwesomeTeam Day2U!:-) #PEACE
See Articles: New Civilization and #AwesomeTeam Hope and Expansion.
Carl Watts on Twitter as: http://twitter.com/Poet_Carl_Watts On Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/carlwatts
Contact on Website
Comment On the Times
Updates
©2011-2012 by Carl Watts/CarlWattsArtist.com edited 8/7/11, 8/17/11, 1/31/12, 4/11/12
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