Get Anything You Want with ARC
    (Affinity, Reality and Communication)

    By using this powerful tool, you can form a meaningful relationship with anyone you
    like. Based on these relationships, you can get the raise, promotion, sale, contract,
    friendship, marriage, support or cooperation you need.

    “The ARC Triangle is the keystone of living associations.” -- L. Ron

    ARC (pronounced as A-R-C, not “ark”) forms the basis for all of your relationships. L.
    Ron Hubbard discovered the rules and uses of ARC during the 1950s.

    Every relationship has three parts:

    Affinity: how much you like or love a person
    Reality: how much agreement you have with a person; what you agree to be real
    Communication: your exchange of information and ideas

    These three parts interact with each other and so form a triangle.

    Part 1: How ARC Works

    Purdue University did a study a few years ago to determine why some of their
    graduates succeeded and others did not. After several years of analyzing the success
    of their engineering students, Purdue came to the following conclusions:

    "The average salary of the students with the highest grades was only slightly higher
    than the average salary of all the graduates. The salaries of the most popular students,
    the ones with the good personalities, were much higher than the average of all
    students. Also, their salaries were much higher than the students with the highest

    A popular personality is based on ARC. When you have good ARC with people, they
    understand you, believe in you, trust you, help you and feel good about you. ARC is
    such a powerful tool that the simple lack of ARC results in upsets, distrust, hatred and

    "Understanding is composed of affinity, reality and communication." -- L.
    Ron Hubbard

    The ARC Triangle gives you a deeper understanding of people. When you truly
    understand your spouse, children, boss, coworkers, employees, customers, clients,
    neighbors and friends, you can help them, talk to them, reach more agreements and
    enjoy their company more than ever before.

    You have more ARC for some people than others. For example, you have high ARC
    with a coworker or colleague if you like the person (Affinity), can talk about many
    subjects (Communication) and agree on many subjects (Reality). You understand this
    person and this person understands you.

    You probably also know someone with whom you have low ARC. You cannot agree on
    things (Reality), you do not like the person very much (Affinity) and you do not

    In Part One of this series of articles on ARC, you will learn how you can easily increase
    your ARC with anyone.

    How to Increase ARC with Anyone

    "The triangle of affinity, reality and communication could be called an
    interactive triangle in that no point of it can be raised without affecting the
    other two points and raising them, and no point of it can be lowered
    without affecting the other two points." -- L. Ron Hubbard

    So all you need to do is decide which point of the triangle you can increase and the
    other two points automatically rise!

    In other words, if you increase the volume or quality of communication you have with
    someone, you are raising the C point of the triangle. As a result, the A point and the R
    point both rise. If you simply talk about anything to a person for enough time (C), the
    person likes you more (A) and agrees with you more (R).

    For example, you meet a new fellow at work named Richard and instantly dislike him.
    Maybe his attitude or appearance rubs you the wrong way. You really don’t want to
    communicate with him (C) or to agree on any reality with him (R). There is little or no

    However, you decide you need to understand Richard so you can work with him. So
    you ask yourself, “Which of the three points can I raise?” You decide to work on the C
    part of the triangle and just start talking to him. “Where did you work before?” “How
    long have you lived in this area?” “Do you have any kids?”

    As a result of your communication, you find out he has three kids about the same age
    as your kids. You share a reality here and so you chat about children. You find yourself
    agreeing with Richard. Within a few minutes, you realize you like Richard. You
    understand each other better than before. You look forward to working with him.

    As another example, you want to have more ARC and a better understanding of Stella.
    Stella could be your boss, an important client, a potential mate or other valuable
    contact. You currently know little about Stella, but have scheduled to meet with her for

    During lunch, you notice Stella is not talking very much. She rarely looks at you and
    barely smiles. You realize the Communication point of the triangle is not very good with
    Stella. The Affinity point is also weak as she does not seem to like you very much. So
    you decide to raise the Reality point of the triangle. You look for things to agree on.
    “How do you relax after work?” “What kind of exercise do you like?” “Do you have a
    vacation coming up?”

    Stella mentions she loves sailboats and you happen to be a sailboat fanatic. Because
    of this shared Reality point of the triangle, you and Stella suddenly have a lot to talk
    about. After several minutes of sailboat chat, you notice she is smiling at you and you
    feel a higher level Affinity for her.

As a final example, you want a better relationship with your spouse. You have not been talking very much lately and seem
to disagree more often than before. You decide to increase the Affinity point of the triangle in your marriage.

Before you go home, you decide to just feel more Affinity. You think of all the things you like about your spouse. After a few
minutes, your mood improves and you look forward to going home.

At home, you give your spouse a big smile. You hug and kiss your spouse. At first, he or she is a little shocked, but soon
starts to return the affection and your Affinity point rises. You talk about your day’s events (C) and agree (R) on your plans
for the evening. Your ARC Triangle is higher than it has been for a while.

This is the power of ARC. With this knowledge, you can rehabilitate or create a wonderful relationship with anyone.


1. Write down something you want. Do not limit yourself to money or physical objects, but consider new opportunities,
powerful contacts, new or deeper friendships, contracts or deals, promotions, projects you want to do and so on.

2. List the names of people who can help you get it.

3. Decide which point of the triangle you can increase with each person: Affinity, Reality or Communication.

4. Increase that one point with each person until the other two points of the triangle increase.

5. Continue to increase your ARC Triangle with each person until you reach your objective.

In future articles, we will cover more ways you can use this powerful tool to form friendships with strangers, become a
better leader, negotiate better deals, increase your success at work, improve your marriage and boost your self

Learn more about ARC in the book The Problems of Work by L. Ron Hubbard, available at

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